My first steps to the new me

I was refered to a womans group for an assertiveness course. It was fine but after a couple of weeks i realised that sitting around chatting wasn't really my thing. Also most of the other women there were mothers and married and i felt left out and alone. Again. I had to think what did i wanna do with my life and who did i wanna be and, more important, what did i have to do to be that person? I knew what person i wanted to be like and i decided i would aim to be like her.