It wasn't just confidence i had a problem with.

I had low self esteem and i thought i was fat and ugly and unlikeable. I didn't like guys looking at me ( i thought i looked hideous) and i didn't wear make up and i wore baggy jumpers. It was a friend who told me that i had to believe in myself and that nobody could love or respect me until i loved and respected myself and i had to change my opinion of myself and start realizing that i was worthy of love and respect.